Sermon Follow-Up

I had some of you ask about the chart we put up on the screen today. I took it from Paul Millers book, A Praying Life. I highly recommend it to you, it’s one of the best books on prayer I have read. The point he made, and I was making, was that we have two ways of viewing suffering. Either God is writing a story for us or He is not. Our lives will look like the following:


NO STORY:
Bitter
Angry
Aimless
Cynical
Controlling
Hopeless
Thankless
Blaming

STORY:
Waiting
Watching
Wondering
Praying
Submitting
Hoping
Thankful
Repenting

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I also need to make one correction in regards to something I said in the second service. I quoted from Isaiah 53:10 which says, “Yet it was the will of the Lord to crush him.” The word will can be translated delight or pleasure in Hebrew. In the sermon I said that the same word is used in Psalm 37:4, “Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” This is NOT the same word found in Isaiah 53:10. The word used in Isaiah 53:10 is found in Psalm 37:23, “The steps of a man are established by the Lord, when he delights in his way.” Sorry for the misquote.

Looking forward to continuing this series next week!

GB

Sermon Preview


During an interview in the search process, someone asked me how I liked to preach. My response was that I feel most comfortable preaching through books of the Bible with the occasional topical, though expositional, series. Someone followed that response by asking if I would ever change my preaching in the middle of a series and do something else. I can’t quite remember what I said, but today the answer is yes! My plans were to be in 1Timothy until the first of the year. The loss of Doug Holt last Saturday has changed my preaching plans dramatically. We need to take some time as a church to process and reflect on what it means to grieve and hurt together. This is a worthy theme during this time in our church.


We are launching a three or four week series tomorrow called Suffering Well. The first sermon, that I’ve called The Good Affliction, is basically me wrestling out loud with how suffering can actually be good. Can it be good? How do we get to a point to call it good? How do we say with the Psalmist “It is good for me that I was afflicted, that I might learn your statutes” (Psalm 119:71)? We will be looking at Lamentations 3. I am praying for the right demeanor and tone, as we deal with this weighty subject in this delicate time.

Hope to see you there!

GB

Dear MEBC

Dear MEBC Family*


I cannot imagine the grief many of you are going through right now. Doug was an amazing guy. The short time I was able to spend with him always left me more sharpened and more mindful of the grace God continues to show to sinners like me. I want you all to know how sorry I am, and that my heart is heavy for all of you.

I don’t know why this has happened at the time it has. I never imagined that my third week on the job would involve the funeral of a staff member. Please know that I am praying harder than I ever have for this church and its leadership. I don’t know what the next few weeks and months of our church will look like. I do know that God will continue to lead us and guide us to be the church that He wants us to be.

I will be going home for Thanksgiving after the funeral on Wednesday. Please pray for safe travel and a refreshing time with family and friends. Heather will not be coming back up until December 10th when we close on our house. I am definitely starting to feel the weight of not having my family with me, especially given the events of the weekend. Please pray for Heather and I as we try to be patient during this transition time.

We are putting 1Timothy on hold for a few weeks to do a new series on suffering called Suffering Well. My plan right now is to spend four weeks looking at what suffering is and how we can respond to it, since we all face it. Hopefully this will be a significant time in the life of our church as we seek to suffer well together.

I am praying for you, if there is any way I can serve you better, please let me know.

Love ya more than you know,

GB

*If you are not a part of Metro East Baptist Church, you are likely not aware that Doug Holt, our Associate Pastor of Community life, was killed in a motorcycle accident Saturday November 20. Please pray for our church as we grieve his loss, and determine how to move forward in his absence.

JC Ryle On Young Men

1. Pride

“Young men, do not be too confident in your own judgment. Stop being so sure that you are always right, and others wrong. Don’t trust your own opinion, when you find it contrary to that of older men, and especially to that of your own parents. Age gives experience, and therefore deserves respect. “

2. Love of Pleasure

“Youth is the time when our passions are strongest—and like unruly children, cry most loudly for indulgence. Youth is the time when we have generally our most health and strength: death seems far away, and to enjoy ourselves in this life seems to be everything… ‘I serve lusts and pleasures’, that is the true answer many a young man should give, if asked, ‘Whose servant are you?’”

3. Thoughtlessness

“Not thinking is one simple reason why thousands of souls are thrown away forever into the Lake of Fire. Men will not consider, will not look ahead, will not look around them, will not reflect on the end of their present course, and the sure consequences of their present days, and wake up to find they are damned for a lack of thinking. Young men, none are in more danger of this than yourselves. You know little of the perils around you, and so you are careless how you walk. You hate the trouble of serious, quiet thinking, and so you make wrong decisions and bring upon yourselves much sorrow.”

4. Contempt of Religion

“This also is one of your special dangers. I always observe that none pay so little outward respect to Christianity as young men. None take so little part in our services, when they are present at them—use Bibles so little—sing so little—listen to preaching so little. None are so generally absent at prayer meetings, Bible Studies, and all other weekday helps to the soul. Young men seem to think they do not need these things—they may be good for women and old men, but not for them. They appear ashamed of seeming to care about their souls: one would almost fancy they considered it a disgrace to go to heaven at all.”

5. Fear of Man’s Opinion

“It is terrible to observe the power which the fear of man has over most minds, and especially over the minds of the young. Few seem to have any opinions of their own, or to think for themselves. Like dead fish, they go with the stream and tide. What others think is right, they think is right; and what others call wrong, they call wrong too. There are not many original thinkers in the world. Most men are like sheep, they follow a leader. If it was the fashion of the day to be Roman Catholics, they would be Roman Catholics, if it was to be Islamic, they would be Islamic. They dread the idea of going against the current of the times. In a word, the opinion of the day becomes their religion, their creed, their Bible, and their God.”

~ J.C. Ryle

My Most Important 10 Feet

“The ten feet from the front pew to the pulpit are the most significant any preacher travels in a given week. It’s hard for an observer to fully appreciate the stange combination of agony and delight joining forces to make that walk possible.

There’s no such thing as an average sermon. For any faithful expositor, the distance is paved with blood, sweat and tears. Those few sheets of paper resting in the back of our Bibles are everything. We step up every week hoping a little of our life-changing encounter with the Word of God gets through. This expectation fills our very soul.” (Byron Yawn, Well Driven Nails: The Power of Finding Your Own Voice)


MEBC Sunday Recap

I thought our first Sunday at MEBC was incredible! The welcome Heather and I received went well beyond anything we expected. Thank you for embracing us the way you have thus far, it makes this transition far less taxing on Heather and I.


If you missed the sermon you can download the podcast or stream the sermon from the site. My hope was to set the tone for how I will be thinking and praying for the next several months as we continue to move forward in this new season at MEBC. It is always dangerous to make some of the promises I made in a public setting. You risk setting yourself up for failure as well as boasting in your own pride and arrogance.

My hope is that it was delivered in humility and received in love. I wanted the church to know where I stand on particular issues and what can be expected of me. Paul told Timothy “Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity” (1Timothy 4:12). Sunday was my attempt to set the example early in my ministry here and pray that God enables me to live up to it.

This weekend we are diving into 1Timothy 1:3-11. Take some time this week to read slowly through this text and ask God to speak to all of us this weekend. Hope to see you there!

For Jesus Fame,

GB

MEBC Day 2

Day 2 at Metro East proved to be full of meetings, prayer, discussions, and dreams about this place. I am constantly reminded that I am surrounded by capable and qualified leaders who love this church and want the best for it.


Many have communicated that they sense a new excitement and enthusiasm that has not been here for some time. I think God has some amazing things in store for MEBC, and it is my prayer that we as a church would not leave Him alone about what He wants for this place. “I love this place” is something I have been saying since I got here and I will continue to say it.

I am looking forward to attending my first prayer meeting tonight as well as my first elder meeting. I hope to update you on sermon information in the next few days. In the meantime here are a few things you can pray about for my family and I:
  • That Cross continues to adjust to moving. He is also not feeling great today.
  • That Heather and I can enjoy this process of transition and not fret about things being inconsistent right now.
  • That I can sleep at night, I have a hard time leaving work at work!
  • That things with the house continue to move forward.
  • That Christ would be our wealth and treasure.

GB